Why does marriage fail even aftermatching charts?

When we focus only on matching the qualities (guna) inthe horoscope for marriage, we might overlook the problems (dosha) in the
chart. Matching qualities alone are not enough if the horoscope has severe
marriage-related issues.

Even if most qualities match, a marriage can end in a badrelationship or separation. Sometimes, a successful marriage can be a matter of
chance if both husband and wife have good horoscopes without issues related to
marriage.

Traditionally, horoscopematching is done based on the placement of the Moon's Nakshatra (birthstar) first, and other criteria are checked later.

To better understand, we need to analyze the chartsholistically at five levels: physical, emotional, psychological, spiritual, and
intellectual.

Matching only based on the Moon's placement might lead todivorces because each horoscopehas its desires and necessities. We must check if they synchronize and are
compatible and consider their patience and compromise levels, which are crucial
for a successful modern family lifestyle.

What is Gun Milan in Kundli matching formarriage?

Gun Milan, also known as Gunas or Ashtakoot Milan, is atraditional method of Kundli matching used inVedic astrology for assessing the compatibility of two individuals for
marriage. In GunMilan, the birth charts (Kundlis) of the prospective bride and groomare compared based on eight different parameters, known as "Kootas"
or "Gunas." Each parameter is assigned a certain number of points,
and the total points obtained from all eight Kootas determine the overall
compatibility between the couple.

The eight Kootas and their assigned points are asfollows:

Varna (1 point): This Koota measures the spiritualdevelopment and compatibility of the couple.

Vashya (2 points): It indicates the dominance and controlone partner may have over the other.

Tara (3 points): This Koota assesses the health andwell-being of the couple after marriage.

Yoni (4 points): It indicates the sexual compatibilityand harmony between the couple.

Graha Maitri (5 points): This Koota measures theintellectual and emotional compatibility between the partners.

Gana (6 points): It represents the temperament and natureof the couple.

Bhakoot (7 points): This Koota measures the couple'semotional and family life compatibility.

Nadi (8 points): It indicates thepresence of genetic or health-related issues between the couple.

The total points obtained from all eight Kootas can rangefrom 0 to 36. Higher the total points, the better the compatibility. Traditionally, a score of 18 points or above is considered acceptable for marriage. However, it's important to note that Gun Milan is just one of the factors considered in Kundli matching. Other factors like MangalDosha (Mars affliction), planetary positions in the 7th house, andoverall compatibility between the couple should also be analyzed to assess marriage compatibility comprehensively.